Who is the third party? The later one in the connection? Or the one that doesn’t have the profound connection with? I hear about this all the time. The one that doesn’t have the marriage bond is the third party even though they met each other first. Or the one who came later but what was the one true love?
There is another name for this, and it is called “karmic”, which I really hate. Being called or calling one is equally terrible. Why would you want to make yourself or the other person exclusive? Why the other party who wasn’t the divine counterpart has to be called karmic partner?
I guess it is called karmic because there is a karmic lesson to be learnt. But I guess a majority of twin flame information can be toxic because they define the “divine counterparts” are meant to be together, and anyone else are karmic partners, which are there for teaching the counterpart a lesson, for the preparation of the reunion of the counterparts.
I agreed there are always lessons to be learnt. But how about turning the term karmic partners into the term soulmates? The term sounds so much better, doesn’t it? But why can’t we generously call the third person a soulmate? If you think about it, it makes sense. The counterpart found the twin flame connection too intense so he or she turned to a soul mate connection instead. I guess we like the term karmic to make ourselves feel better.
Forgive them because they have their free will to choose, and they didn’t choose you. It was all because we could be more harmonic with our soul mates. God always has a plan. If one party decided not to follow the plan, then there is still option B or option C. The difference is, to trust and have faith, whatever the outcome is, God will be watching over us.
I am sure God watches over my counterpart’s connection with his partner. As long as their love is genuine it is worth God’s blessing. God love honestly. God love loyalty. If they are true to each other, I also send my blessing to them alongside with God. Why not? As long as it is genuine, they deserve to be happy too. Because I am also blessed by God for being honest about my feelings. If you truly love someone, or something, you need to let him/her/it know then let go. I remembered when my father passed away, I got many dreams about him telling me to move on. He told me if I couldn’t he couldn’t neither. That was really hard for me to do so years after years he still sent me the same message and one day, I figured I was being selfish to hold on to his energy, I was also being imprisoned by my own longing. I need to let go. So, I did.
If I could let my father go, why couldn’t I let my twin go? My father gets to go to heaven, and he gets to go with his partner. I saw them with my own eyes, multiple times. I confirmed they are a stable couple. That is beautiful. And me? I am also happy. I have my own loved ones who understood this connection and still willing to support me. They are truly God’s gift to me.
Am I being the third party? Or am I really the divine feminine? I am ok to be called what-so-ever, because I know I did nothing wrong, I hid nothing, I have been nothing but a true friend, a true light with the purest heart and with the finest intention. I was only there to enlighten him in his darkness. I was only there to help him in difficult times without asking for anything in return. I have completed the tasks God asked me to do. I remembered the last message from him was, “I never wanted anything from you. Stay away from me, stay away from her. Blocking now.” And I replied “ok.”
I truly respect his decision and will keep to the code. It is such a small request compared to what I have been asked to do for him in the past, of course there is no problem to me.
Although I also remembered, he asked me to be more than colleagues when I asked him what he wants from me in the past (lol).
So, whichever is the truth, as long as he is genuine to himself, he will be saved. If he isn’t, only God knows.
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